Sunday, March 5, 2017

Why I don't want to have kids

Lately, I've been thinking why does everyone ask me "why I don't want to have kids?" this question always been hunting me since probably since I was born and my answer will always be no, I do not want to have kids I'm not interested in having a child.          
Growing up, I never been into the type of motherhood and right now I'm on my early 20's so right now having kids is still not on my list.

I never had a traumatic experience in my childhood, I grew up with a lot of strong female in my household and still, I simply don't want to have kids even my mom doesn't want to be a grandma, see? fair enough.

What if you meet a guy and he wants to have a child with you? Well, again my answer will be no, not even with Jared Leto, Domhnall Gleeson, Michael Fassbender and other celebrities crushes I really hate crying babies, kids throwing tantrum, teenage angsty, diapers and etc....The list goes on and on. What if you get pregnant? Well, right now I'm 21 years old living with my mom and I can see my mom kicking my ass and the other part I will simply go to an abortion clinic. "But you're murdering a blessing" I can write an article why I'm pro-abortion beside it's my body, my choices end of the discussion, also my blessing is "silence and money", right Mr Krab?!. I enjoy my freedom, I love sleeping, not to worry much about my responsibility aside keeping my grades up, keeping the house clean, taking care my pets and other personal stuff. "who will take care of you when you're old" Don't know, don't care and I'm too young to think about it but my plan is becoming like Betty White not giving a single fuck. 

Now having a kid is nothing bad but I'm simply not interested in having one. Not everyone wants to be a parent and that's totally OKAY same goes to those who wants to be a parent that's totally fine!

2 comments:

  1. I've definitely gotten that as well---"who will take care of you when you're older" bit--it's probably the most bullshit thing I've ever been asked...

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    1. I agree it just pure bullshit and quite out dated makes me think the 14th century during the black plague don't know why probably some meme that I saw but it just stupid.

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